Where to start
Begin with the deceased's home church, if there is one. If not, your funeral director will recommend churches in their network or help you find one. You can also use our directory to browse churches by state.
By tradition
Catholic
A Catholic funeral usually involves three liturgies: the Vigil (wake), the Funeral Mass, and the Rite of Committal at the cemetery. Funeral Masses are usually held within 3–7 days of death.
Orthodox
The Trisagion is held in the days following death; the funeral itself takes place in the church and includes prayers for the soul of the departed.
Protestant
Most Protestant funerals are memorial services — held days or weeks after death, usually without the body present. Eulogies, scripture, hymns, and a brief sermon are typical.
Common elements
- Procession and welcome
- Scripture readings
- Eulogy
- Hymns or songs significant to the deceased
- Sermon or homily
- Prayers and committal
- Reception (often in the fellowship hall afterward)
Costs
Many churches host funeral services for active members at no cost or a modest donation. For non-members, expect a sanctuary fee ($200–$1,000+), an officiant honorarium ($200–$500), and musicians' fees.
Practical tips
- Coordinate with the funeral director — they've done it many times and will smooth logistics.
- Ask the church about audio/video — many can livestream for distant family.
- Prepare a short program for guests.
- Designate a friend or family member to greet visitors.
For non-religious families
Many churches will host a memorial for a person who wasn't a regular attendee, especially if the family wants the dignity and beauty of a sacred space. Be honest with the pastor about the deceased's faith, and many will gladly accommodate.
Pre-planning
If you'd like to ensure a church funeral when the time comes, talk with your pastor now. Many churches keep funeral preferences on file — readings, songs, and burial wishes — to make the eventual planning much easier on your family.